Co-parenting communication.
Your co-parent doesn’t need the app.
A permanent, secure communication address for separated and divorced parents, plus an AI companion that helps you respond with clarity and composure, no matter how the other parent shows up.
Premium is $14.99/month when you want more help · Available on web and Android. iOS coming soon.
Works without your co-parent
Nothing for them to install
Your co-parent keeps using their own email. No app, no account, no invitation to accept.
Just email on their end
Any email address can reach your CoAdvocate.ai address, so there's nothing for them to set up.
Works even if they never cooperate
You don't need their permission, their participation, or their good behavior.
Their name appears in your inbox, and your stomach drops.
You read it three times. You draft the reply you want to send — then delete it, because you know how it would look later. You sit with it for an hour you don't have. And the whole time, a quiet voice asks: is anyone keeping track of all this?
Three things, every day
Handle difficult messages
Each message arrives summarized and scored for tension, and a tone check reads your reply before it goes.
See message analysisHelp that knows your plan
Answers and drafts that quote your parenting plan, section by section. Not legal advice.
See plan-aware helpA record you can rely on
Within the app, neither you nor your co-parent can alter or delete a message once it's sent.
See the recordKnow what you're walking into.
Each message is read for tone and potential conflict and surfaced calmly: a short summary, how tense it is, and whether it pulls the kids in. Never alarming colors, just clear signal. You learn what's inside before it can blindside you.
Your parenting plan, quoted back to you.
Upload your parenting plan or court order and CoAdvocate.ai reads it. When a message touches pickup, holidays, money or decisions, you see exactly what the plan says, with the section cited.
Catch the line you'd regret.
When emotions run high, a private tone check flags the line that would start a fight, says why, and offers a calmer version. The reply that protects your child and your case, not the one written to win the moment.
Somewhere private to think it through.
Talk it through with the companion before you decide how to respond. It isn't sent to your co-parent and it isn't part of your message record.
A record neither of you can edit
Messages tied to your co-parent are preserved as a timestamped, legal-grade record. Within the app, neither you nor your co-parent can alter or delete a message once it's sent — so in a he-said/she-said dispute, you have the record.
Permanent by design
Your address is never recycled or reassigned, even if you close your account. Courts can reference it. It will not vanish when you need it most.
A separate space to be human.
You can vent to the companion. Ask the frightened question. Work through what you're really feeling before you decide how to respond — a space to find your footing, not to build your case.
By design, we keep your conversations with the companion out of your evidence export and don't surface them to your attorney through CoAdvocate.ai — the place where you process and the place that holds your proof are meant to stay apart. As noted, these conversations aren't legally privileged and could be discoverable if a court specifically compels it, and they're automatically deleted after a window you choose — 48 hours to 7 days — a space to process, not a record you keep.
Not legal advice.
Free to use. Premium when you want more help.
Free
Your address, inbox, calendar and record, with no time limit. No card needed.
Premium · $14.99/month + tax
AI help past the starter allowance, pattern tools and 50 GB of storage.
Built for parents — and the people who help them
Stay calm. Stay documented.
For the parent who is trying, even when the other one isn't. A steady presence in your corner, and a record you can stand behind.
- A permanent communication address, yours for life
- Calmer replies, drafted with you in the hard moments
- A timestamped record that, within the app, neither parent can edit or delete
- A private space to process — ephemeral by design, kept out of your evidence record
Attorneys, mediators & counselors
An organized record without the chaos. The record your client meant to keep, timestamped and exported in minutes — so you can spend your time advising, not triaging.
- Client-granted access, strictly scoped to one client
- Exhibit packets, exported in minutes
- Timestamped records with an integrity statement — no more screenshot dumps
- Client companion conversations stay out of the evidence export
Your permanent address is waiting
Create your account in a few minutes — no invite needed, and nothing required from your co-parent. It works for you, starting today.